Society’s Strides Can’t Support True Love: Tochi’s BBNaija Realization

"Nigeria isn’t designed for love" – BBNaija's Tochi

Reality TV star Tochi has sparked a heated online debate by sharing his thoughts on love and dating in Nigeria. In a recent post, he expressed his frustration with the country’s “hustling” culture, which he believes makes it challenging to form genuine relationships. According to Tochi, some individuals may use relationships for personal gain, rather than nurturing meaningful connections.

Tochi’s sentiments have garnered a range of reactions from fans and followers, with some empathizing with his frustration while others have criticized his views on love and relationships. While he did not specifically cite any individual responsible for his feelings, his post conveyed a sense of deep betrayal.

In a related development, a nurse recently took to social media to vent about her frustration with a husband who refused to provide for his wife’s basic needs, including food, after she was advised to refrain from intimacy for a month following childbirth due to her stitches.

The nurse recounted a disturbing incident involving a patient who had undergone an episiotomy and was readmitted to the hospital due to complications. The husband, who was initially perceived as concerned for his wife’s well-being, quickly turned aggressive and accusatory, berating the medical staff for their handling of the situation.

However, the nurse soon discovered that the husband’s true motivation was not his wife’s well-being, but rather his own ego and desire for immediate gratification. He was outraged by the suggestion that his wife should avoid intimacy for a month, stating, “If she doesn’t show intimacy, she won’t get to eat.” The nurse was left appalled by the husband’s response and the mother, who appeared to find the situation amusing.

The nurse’s viral post has solicited a deluge of reactions from concerned individuals, all of whom have expressed outrage at the husband’s behavior and solidarity with the plight of women in similar situations.